
Welcome
I have devoted my career as a child and adolescent psychologist to exposing Silicon Valley’s secret science of addiction that is stealing kids away from the real world and devastating their health and success. This is the science of persuasive design in which digital devices and apps—including social media and video games—are developed to use psychology to control humans. As I describe in my recently released book Better Than Real Life, this addictive science is purpose-built to hack kids’ vulnerable brains to convince them that engaging with screens is better than anything that real life has to offer. I encourage parents and others who care for kids to join together to protect them from addictive screens and give them the real-world lives that they need.
The Secret Silicon Valley Science Stealing Childhood
My new book Better Than Real Life unveils how Silicon Valley’s hidden science of addiction is pulling a generation of kids away from the real world to live on social media, video games, and online video. This science is so powerful that it is able to persuade youth, at a genetic level, that sitting sedentary on playtime screens is better than running and playing, better than engaging with school, better than spending time with family. Kids suffer physically, emotionally, and academically as a result. Better Than Real Life reveals how we can provide our kids the healthy childhood they need—in the real world.
Praise for Better Than Real Life
“This book will haunt you, but in all the best ways. It's not enough to know our kids are being tricked and manipulated, it’s knowing how they are being tricked that will help parents—and kids themselves—make smarter screen-time decisions.”
— Victoria Dunckley, MD, integrative child psychiatrist and author of Reset Your Child's Brain
“Dr. Freed courageously exposes the ‘puppet masters’ hiding behind kids’ screens, shedding light on how technology and gaming companies employ neuropsychologists and neuroscientists to implement manipulative designs in their digital products.”
— Andrew P. Doan, MPH, MD, PhD, Author of Hooked on Games and Digital Drugs and the Struggle for Connection, Aerospace Medicine Physician, Ophthalmologist, & Neuroscientist
“This beautifully written and accessible book will give you calm, clear and courageous information that cuts through profit-driven marketing, tech-industry manipulation and media hype.”
— Kim John Payne. MEd, Author of Simplicity Parenting, The Soul of Discipline, and Emotionally Resilient Tween and Teens
Screen Addiction Podcast
Watch or listen to my Screen Addiction Podcast available on YouTube, Spotify, and Apple where I reveal how addictive screens are stealing childhood away from all things real world, and l show actions to provide our kids happy, healthy, and successful lives in this digital age.
My Articles on Substack

In the Media
Dr. Freed’s insights have been featured in the New York Times, Wall Street Journal, Washington Post, Atlantic, on NPR and CNBC, as well as other media outlets.

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